Saturday, October 4, 2008

The Ties That Bind

My grandfather is in the hospital---at 91 years old, he's still fairly sharp, but his body is slowly giving out on him. Being honest, we haven't really had a good relationship; when I was younger, he seemed to think of me only in terms of what I wasn't--I wasn't tall, or thin, or blonde, or as pretty or smart as my older cousins. And there's been some ugliness much more recently that's made it hard for me to talk to him, even now.

But I called him in the hospital. And I'm glad I did. For all his faults, he's still the only grandfather I have left. And he loves my daughter---loves her and asks after her and is interested in her in a way he never was with me. So...yeah, I'll call him tomorrow.

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